My mother tried to teach me How I should love everyone How I should see God in everyone; How I should not be lazy And do every work With care and due diligence; How I should neither be Puffed up by praise Nor downcast by blame; How my anger Is my enemy And how a peaceful disposition Is my protector; How, should a mistake occur On my part With regard to speech or action And then should anyone Point a finger at me How I should not feel bad And should pray to God That I should not commit A similar mistake again; How when I didn't understand Some work Not to be hasty But to ask around And get to know better; How not to let Anger or despondency or hatred Come near me; How to be happy And mingle freely With everyone; And, when such qualities As the above Start to inhere in me How it is unnecessary To go to an Ashram Nor do any meditation Or worship any God And that in such a scenario I will definitely reach God's being; And she was writing this With the full trust That I will follow her advice And blessed me that May God keep me Safe and sound; And, like she was always insistent She could not help adding My health was important So I should definitely exercise This was the flower-strewn path That my mother showed me. My Mother's Letter To Me in Her Exact Words (Written in Dallas in Telugu, Circa 1998) Nee kopame neeku shatruvu; nee shanthame neeku rakhsa. Andari lopala devunni choodu. Andarini preminchu. Pogadinappudu pongi poku; thittinappudu krungi poku. Maata vishayamulane gaani pani vishayamulane gaani nee yandu thappu jarugavachhu; appudu ninnu evaru emanna badha padaka malli ituvanti thappu jaruganivvakani devunni prarthinchu. Kopamu gaani dukkham gaani dvesham gaani nee dari chera nivvaku. Andaritho santoshanga meluga nerchuko. Chese panilo Shraddha petti cheyyi; baddakangaa undaku. Nuvvu chese pani theliyanappudu thondarapadaku; andarini adigi thelusuko prayathnichu. Eee gunalanni neelo cherinappudu neevu ashramamu gaani dhyanamu gaani poojalu gaani cheyanavasarumuledu; neevu thappaka devunni cheragalavu. Neevu thappakunda paatinchagalavani nammi vrasinanu. Devudu ninnu kshemamuga vunchu gaaka. Nee aarogyam mukhyam; thappakunda exercise cheyyi. Itlu mee amma choopina poola bata.