Here is the email I wrote to my younger sister Kavitha just now, who is travelling with her family in a few hours from now back to the US where she lives, and she is sort of worried how she will know how I am doing on a day-to-day basis since I have said I will be Summa Iru and not be interacting with anyone over phone nor opening my door to anyone and I have already dismissed the services of my maid-cum-cook, so basically no contact with anyone, and hence her worry…read what I wrote to her over email and what I wrote might also help you also deal with your own future anxieties and worries:
Kav,
Do NOT worry about how I am doing even if I do not text you as you wanted me to do and as I promised I would do everyday
and I WILL text You and Jyo and Sac if I am in any difficulty.
Read the below quote and its explanation by Claude and ChatGPT in my Blog at the link given below
and you will understand why there is NO NEED to worry about a future that is already FIXED INALTERABLY
IRRESPECTIVE OF WHAT ANYONE IN THIS WORLD DOES OR DOES NOT DO
ALTHOUGH THE DOING WILL HAPPEN AS IT IS DESTINED TO HAPPEN
(now, do not do tarka vadam that your worrying is also predetermined and to a certain extent indeed it is but reading this email and my blog post whose link I have given below will eliminate that worry through correct understanding that you will get if that is how it is destined, otherwise despite reading this you will UNNECESSARILY continue to worry but I will NOT be worrying that you are worrying since I understand everything is predtermined and so I know that you will worry as much as you are predestined tow rry and I have no control over such a destiny if that be the case BUT I am doing my bit by trying to end such worrying in you through the emssage of this email but the results of such an action by me are NOT in my control as Kirshna pointed out in the Gita — “Why should you bear your load on the head when you are travelling on a train? It carries you and your load whether the load is on your head or on the floor of the train. You are not lessening the burden of the train by keeping it on your head but only straining yourself unnecessarily. Similar is the sense of doership in the world by the individuals.”–Ramana Maharshi):
“The Ordainer controls the fate of souls in accordance with their past deeds. Whatever is destined not to happen will not happen, try how hard you may. Whatever is destined to happen will happen, do what you may to stop it. This is certain. The best course, therefore, is to remain silent.” ― Sri Ramana Maharshi.
Read Claude and ChatGPT’s Comments on this on my Blog by clicking on the link below:
https://selfrealization.blog/2026/03/24/ramana-maharshi-on-destiny/
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