“I have always loved and cherished my friends more than they ever loved me or cherished me. For instance, I … More
Category: Psychology
Perverse Psychology
“The only way some people can feel on top is by putting you down.”
Insecurity
“The world is full of insecure people.”
The Rub
“Nothing irritates a smart person more than being considered less intelligent than one is, especially when the person making one … More
Intelligence
“Unless you have a swagger, people think you are less intelligent.”
Other People
“The one thing that really derails you in life is when you start caring for what other people think about … More
The Price of Truth
“The price of Truth is your ego.”
A Mixed Bag
What a heady mix life isSome love you, some hate youSome adore you, some are jealous of youSome think you … More
“Oh what a tangled web we weave/When first we practice to deceive”
Here is an email I sent out to family (note that I am a bachelor) and friends: Shakespeare wrote, “Oh … More
Brute Force Meditation: Why It Fails & The Vedantic Path to True Transformation
Most meditation techniques today—from breath-watching and mantra chanting to mindfulness and loving-kindness—belong to the Raja Yoga or Buddhist tradition. While they calm the mind temporarily, they work like “brute force” methods, attempting to suppress thoughts without addressing their root: our underlying desires. True inner transformation, however, requires a radical shift in understanding, not mere mental discipline. Vedanta teaches that only through śravaṇa (learning), manana (reflection), and eventually nididhyāsana (meditation) can the mind genuinely quieten. When the nature of the self, the world, and desire is understood, meditation becomes natural, effortless, and transformative—not just relaxing.