For the longest time, I have held that some workplaces are so wrapped up in productivity, often bolstered by the … More
Category: Psychology
The Neglected Art of Receiving
We’re taught that giving is superior to receiving. Indeed, the art of giving is a helpful corrective to human narcissism. … More
Dreams are Similar to Waking Life
Biocentrism says space and time are tools of the mind, and dreams seem to be only further proof of the … More
Not Having Children
I have made countless bad decisions in my life, but never having children is not one of them. Not all … More
Chairwork – A Form of Therapy
Somehow, this 15-minute dialogue had helped me find a resolution to my frustration – something I had been unable to … More
First Dates and Falling in Love
Many people fall in love for all the wrong reasons, including a romanticized notion of what their partner is really … More
Friendship Perfectionism
Psychoanalyst Virginia Goldner distinguishes between two types of safety in relationships, “the flaccid safety of permanent coziness,” maintained by ignoring … More
A good life doesn’t have to be happy, or even meaningful
What does a good life look like to you? For some, the phrase may conjure up images of a close-knit … More
Marriage and Women
Researching marital effects on happiness is tricky because happier people are generally more likely to get married than others. Still, … More
Romantic Love
“First you marry, then you fall in love” In old India, the prevailing philosophy regarding romantic love was, “First you … More
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