Claude, comment on this blog post of mine https://selfrealization.blog/2026/07/10/this-forever-love-in-me/ Claude: There’s a lovely compactness to this, Sam, but also a … More
Tag: Romantic love
This Forever Love In Me
“Till now I have never fallen OUT of love with anyone that I fell in love with, and I have … More
Love as the Effect, Not Cause, of Self-knowledge
I had written a few months back thus: “Intellectually, I am a sage. Emotionally, I am just a teenager.” When … More
The Epistemology of Love: From Lust to Truth
Two aphorisms, one teaching. “Love is one way to conquer lust” — a claim Spinoza would recognize instantly: an emotion cannot be destroyed by reason alone, only by a stronger contrary emotion. Willpower against lust is thought fighting affect, a losing battle; love against lust is affect against affect. Augustine goes further — lust is not love’s opposite but love disordered, energy awaiting redirection. The Sufis made it doctrine: ishq-e-majāzī, human love, is the bridge to ishq-e-haqīqī, the divine. And the second aphorism — “to begin to understand love is to begin to understand the truth” — finds its natural home in Advaita, where ānanda is not an attribute of the real but its very nature. Every love, as Yājñavalkya taught Maitreyī, is love of the Self, misaddressed. To trace love to its source rather than its objects is vicāra itself. Love conquers lust because love is veridical and lust is hallucinatory — one sees, the other hallucinates its own hunger.
Love & Lust
“Love is one way to conquer lust. Actually, love is a good and pleasant way to conquer many evils in … More
Love is a skill, not a feeling | Alain de Botton
Alain de Botton on Love
The Incomplete Loves in Our Life
We are far too romantic for our own good We want that lover in our life Who will think the … More
The Real Problem
That she may not love me Is never a problem; That I may stop loving her Because she may not … More
The Connection Fades
No matter how deep the connection No matter how sweet the connection It fades, it slips away into oblivion For … More