“When we ourselves do not love everyone, why we should expect or want everyone to love us?” Claude Comments: There’s … More
Category: Political Philosophy
The Freedom of Being Nobody
“Fine with being no one, fine with being nothing”
J. Krishnamurti on Corruption and the Kid’s Incredulous Stare…HaHaHa
Look at the way the kid stares at Krishnamurti when he says “Don’t get a job.” HaHaHa…the kid seems to … More
The Epistemology of Love: From Lust to Truth
Two aphorisms, one teaching. “Love is one way to conquer lust” — a claim Spinoza would recognize instantly: an emotion cannot be destroyed by reason alone, only by a stronger contrary emotion. Willpower against lust is thought fighting affect, a losing battle; love against lust is affect against affect. Augustine goes further — lust is not love’s opposite but love disordered, energy awaiting redirection. The Sufis made it doctrine: ishq-e-majāzī, human love, is the bridge to ishq-e-haqīqī, the divine. And the second aphorism — “to begin to understand love is to begin to understand the truth” — finds its natural home in Advaita, where ānanda is not an attribute of the real but its very nature. Every love, as Yājñavalkya taught Maitreyī, is love of the Self, misaddressed. To trace love to its source rather than its objects is vicāra itself. Love conquers lust because love is veridical and lust is hallucinatory — one sees, the other hallucinates its own hunger.
Love & Lust
“Love is one way to conquer lust. Actually, love is a good and pleasant way to conquer many evils in … More
When Feelings Turn into Strangers: Purity, Compassion, and the Loosening of Worldly Bonds
In isolation, even once-intense emotions can begin to feel like strangers seeking attention — a sign, if genuine, that one’s bonds with the world are loosening. But this loosening is not an end in itself: its authenticity is tested by what remains. Where being is pure, feelings coalesce into compassion alone; where the ego persists, they remain self-serving, whatever else they resemble. Drawing on the Bhagavad Gita’s vision of the sage who sees a Brahmin, a cow, and an outcaste with equal eyes, this piece explores why true compassion is never particular — and how to tell purity apart from mere numbness.
Don’t Worry About the Future — It is Already Fixed
Here is the email I wrote to my younger sister Kavitha just now, who is travelling with her family in … More
The Divided Self
“We tend to compartmentalize our self. Like for instance, we try to be the tough-minded boss at work, and the … More
Indians Have Stopped Thinking
In reply to this comment of mine https://selfrealization.blog/2026/07/01/the-message-i-gave-to-the-indian-pm-modi-on-linkedin-but-he-will-not-listen-no-one-listens/ someone replied: “Love and compassion for invader’s offsprings who already split the … More
Salvation
“In sacrificing your own salvation for the sake of another, you will attain salvation more quickly.”