The phrase “when in doubt, do as the Brahmins do” is an instruction found in the Taittiriya Upanishad, a key … More
Tag: Dharma
Only Two Ashrams in Life
I reject the Varnashrama Dharma. According to me, there are only two ashrams. It is up to one to define … More
Modern Way to Live Vanaprastha Ashram
Vanaprastha Ashram is often misunderstood as withdrawal from society. In truth, it is a withdrawal from compulsion, ego, and the need to constantly prove one’s worth. Traditionally associated with midlife or later years, Vanaprastha marks a shift from achievement to understanding, from control to clarity.
In modern life, this transition does not require forests or seclusion. It can be lived in homes, workplaces, caregiving roles, and leadership positions. Psychologically, it aligns with the brain’s natural movement toward emotional regulation, pattern recognition, and meaning-making. Spiritually, it softens identity without erasing responsibility.
Vanaprastha allows one to mentor without ownership, serve without depletion, and remain socially engaged without being entangled. It is particularly relevant for those experiencing midlife questioning, leadership fatigue, caregiver exhaustion, or spiritual burnout.
To live Vanaprastha today is to stay present in the world while loosening one’s grip on it—fully engaged, yet inwardly free.
The Architecture of the Cosmos and the Intellectual Treadmill
A friend wrote to me on email:Hi Sam, Would you be interested in experimenting with SHARED CHATGPT CHAT with me?We … More
Truth & Untruth
Read this story that refers to a prayer Ramakrishna made to the Divine Mother where he asked for pure love, … More
More Sayings of Mine – Don’t Read if You Don’t Want To
“Marriage and metaphysics do not gel with each other.” “True freedom is to realize and be OK with it that … More
Dharma
“All Dharma is mere imagination because where there is only the One, where can there be any scope for Dharma. Make the slightest difference between yourself and God, then the head of Dharma rears up.”
This is not a rejection of Dharma, but a reminder of its contingency. Dharma operates within duality: seeker and sought, self and God. For the aspirant, Dharma purifies; for the realized, Dharma dissolves. Aphorisms are easy to misread—yet they point to the timeless truth of Advaita: where nonduality shines, categories collapse, leaving only the One without a second.
Says Who
“All Dharma is mere imagination because where there is only the One, where can there be any scope for Dharma.” “Make … More
My Brother-in-Law’s Perspicacious Observation and the Purusharthas
When in January 1995 at the age of 30 years I came back to India from the US, I was … More
Beyond the Dichotomy of Liberals and Conservatives
No love seems to be lost these days between liberals and conservatives, so-called left wing and right wing. For quite … More