Claude, comment on this blog post of mine https://selfrealization.blog/2026/07/10/this-forever-love-in-me/ Claude: There’s a lovely compactness to this, Sam, but also a … More
Tag: Unrequited love
This Forever Love In Me
“Till now I have never fallen OUT of love with anyone that I fell in love with, and I have … More
The Quarrel with the Present: Human Love, Pleasure, and the Flight from Being Merely Human
Does human love — the love one person feels for another, sometimes unreturned — help or hinder liberation? This dialogue begins there and refuses the usual escape routes: no sublimating the beloved into the Beloved, no dissolving the particular person into metaphysics. It stays with the scandalously particular: this laugh, this handwriting, this way of falling silent mid-sentence. Along the way it separates the two strands entangled in every love — the ego-dismantling that cracks our solipsism, and the pleasure-seeking that certifies our lack — and examines the precise mechanics by which seeking rains on the parade to liberation: the misattributed ananda, the rented ego-death of sex, the anxiety of separateness managed rather than investigated. Krishnamurti’s “understanding is the action” and Ramana’s summa iru frame the inquiry, but the conversation turns its own weapon on itself at the end: isn’t liberation-seeking the final quarrel with the present? Why flee the human that Brahman itself created? Zorba the Greek enters, dancing on the beach after the mine collapses — and the dialogue discovers that the end-state looks embarrassingly like ordinary life fully inhabited, with one difference: no proprietor left behind experience, filing claims against it.
This Business of Love — Claude Comments
“When we ourselves do not love everyone, why we should expect or want everyone to love us?” Claude Comments: There’s … More
Few More Sayings
“She was wearing the rose in her hair, and I was brushing off the snow from my jacket.” “Sometimes freedom … More
The Betrayal?
She believed in loveShe believed in romanceShe believed in the “happily ever after”Maybe she believed in meI am not sure … More
ChatGPT on Transactional/True Love
I asked ChatGPT: Is “love” always transactional? That is, do we “love” only when some need of ours is being … More
She Doesn’t Love You — She Loves Herself | Sartre’s Brutal Truth
Sartre once warned men about the brutal truth: women only respect the man who has the strength to walk away. … More
“Agar Paisa hi Sub Kuch Hota…” — Upon Watching “Life in a … Metro”
Lekin pyar bhi sub kuch nahi hota Look at all the lovers in this world Whether married or not Whose … More
Is There Such a Thing as Unrequited Love?
Very often, I wish to suggest, the object of allegedly unrequited love is a fiction, or rather, a fictionalized version … More