Claude, comment on this blog post of mine https://selfrealization.blog/2026/07/10/this-forever-love-in-me/ Claude: There’s a lovely compactness to this, Sam, but also a … More
Tag: Philosophy of Love
The Quarrel with the Present: Human Love, Pleasure, and the Flight from Being Merely Human
Does human love — the love one person feels for another, sometimes unreturned — help or hinder liberation? This dialogue begins there and refuses the usual escape routes: no sublimating the beloved into the Beloved, no dissolving the particular person into metaphysics. It stays with the scandalously particular: this laugh, this handwriting, this way of falling silent mid-sentence. Along the way it separates the two strands entangled in every love — the ego-dismantling that cracks our solipsism, and the pleasure-seeking that certifies our lack — and examines the precise mechanics by which seeking rains on the parade to liberation: the misattributed ananda, the rented ego-death of sex, the anxiety of separateness managed rather than investigated. Krishnamurti’s “understanding is the action” and Ramana’s summa iru frame the inquiry, but the conversation turns its own weapon on itself at the end: isn’t liberation-seeking the final quarrel with the present? Why flee the human that Brahman itself created? Zorba the Greek enters, dancing on the beach after the mine collapses — and the dialogue discovers that the end-state looks embarrassingly like ordinary life fully inhabited, with one difference: no proprietor left behind experience, filing claims against it.
Uniworse
Uniworse. Claude, comment. Claude: Calibrated wit with philosophical depth for playful engagement “Uniworse” — the universe as experienced on a … More
The Epistemology of Love: From Lust to Truth
Two aphorisms, one teaching. “Love is one way to conquer lust” — a claim Spinoza would recognize instantly: an emotion cannot be destroyed by reason alone, only by a stronger contrary emotion. Willpower against lust is thought fighting affect, a losing battle; love against lust is affect against affect. Augustine goes further — lust is not love’s opposite but love disordered, energy awaiting redirection. The Sufis made it doctrine: ishq-e-majāzī, human love, is the bridge to ishq-e-haqīqī, the divine. And the second aphorism — “to begin to understand love is to begin to understand the truth” — finds its natural home in Advaita, where ānanda is not an attribute of the real but its very nature. Every love, as Yājñavalkya taught Maitreyī, is love of the Self, misaddressed. To trace love to its source rather than its objects is vicāra itself. Love conquers lust because love is veridical and lust is hallucinatory — one sees, the other hallucinates its own hunger.
Why Romantic Love Always Ends in Disappointment | Alan Watts
Alan Watts’ timeless wisdom offers clarity on how to free yourself from unrealistic expectations and embrace love as a state of being rather than a fleeting emotion. By watching, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of human connection, discover why disappointment often follows romantic ideals, and learn how to approach love with maturity, authenticity, and inner peace. This isn’t just a speech—it’s a life-changing perspective that will help you see love in a way you never have before.
What Ain’t Love
Sex is pleasure, not loveHolding hands is cute, but not loveHugging and embracing, love?Kissing is so sweet, but is it … More
The Philosophy of Love: Can We Learn How to Love?
According to Taoist philosophies, to say “I love you” to someone with the intention of owning that individual is going … More