Ah, I understand life Understand it well Understand it at last; It matters not My life is almost over, For … More
Category: Self-realization / Liberation
Are You Still Searching?
Unlike poor Bono, I have found everything I have looked for. U2 – I Still Haven’t Found What I’m Looking … More
Regarding This Wish to Build a Statue of My Father in Our Village
A cousin wrote: The people of Gudiganpally, along with the followers of Gopal Thatha, are wishing to place a statue … More
Zorba the Greek: A Philosophy of Living
Nikos Kazantzakis’s Zorba the Greek stands as one of the most vivid explorations of the tension between intellectual contemplation and … More
No More Preaching
In understanding others, we understand ourselvesIn understanding ourselves, we understand othersHidden in these lines is a deeper truth than at … More
The Futility of the Pursuit of Knowledge
My cousin was telling me the other day that she wanted to read up all the fields of knowledge, such … More
ChatGPT on Transactional/True Love
I asked ChatGPT: Is “love” always transactional? That is, do we “love” only when some need of ours is being … More
Conversations on Love & Spirituality with Oumaa (https://oumaa.com)
Conversations with Oumaa (https://Oumaa.com) I said: Is “love” always transactional? That is, do we “love” only when some need of … More
Is the search for truth the subtlest form of Maya? Janak asks Ashtavakra
Janak asks Ashtavakra: Is the search for truth the subtlest form of Maya? What follows is not a teaching, not … More
Modern Way to Live Vanaprastha Ashram
Vanaprastha Ashram is often misunderstood as withdrawal from society. In truth, it is a withdrawal from compulsion, ego, and the need to constantly prove one’s worth. Traditionally associated with midlife or later years, Vanaprastha marks a shift from achievement to understanding, from control to clarity.
In modern life, this transition does not require forests or seclusion. It can be lived in homes, workplaces, caregiving roles, and leadership positions. Psychologically, it aligns with the brain’s natural movement toward emotional regulation, pattern recognition, and meaning-making. Spiritually, it softens identity without erasing responsibility.
Vanaprastha allows one to mentor without ownership, serve without depletion, and remain socially engaged without being entangled. It is particularly relevant for those experiencing midlife questioning, leadership fatigue, caregiver exhaustion, or spiritual burnout.
To live Vanaprastha today is to stay present in the world while loosening one’s grip on it—fully engaged, yet inwardly free.